I believe in love and being kind to yourself. I'm a lot of things, but mostly blessed. Also, (part-time) economist, poet, ATLshawty, student of life , and expert at being black and a woman. I also write here: http://wyhwtm.blogspot.com.


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May 19, 2012
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We need more light about each other. Light creates understanding, understanding creates love, love creates patience, patiences creates unity.

Malcolm X, born on this day in 1925. Today his light still shines with us

Happy Malcolm X Day!

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May 17, 2012
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RIP Donna
oneinch:

Donna Summer Dead at 63

RIP Donna

oneinch:

Donna Summer Dead at 63


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May 16, 2012
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Yasssss
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“I don’t need a relaxer my hair ain’t stressed out!”
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Yasssss

thatneedstogo:

“I don’t need a relaxer my hair ain’t stressed out!”

myangeleyezcu:

Shirt available at The Curl Station fanpage on Facebook.


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May 16, 2012
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When I say the word you, I mean
a hundred universes.

— Rumi (via jinquotes)

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May 16, 2012
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Wow :)

ogtoldme:

I asked Dr. Woody Carter,

“If you had the ear of the youth, given your expertise, what would you tell them?”

OG Told Me: 

“The one thing I would tell young people: Learn how to meditate. Make it a discipline.”

“we’re all instruments- out of tune; if you we’re to tune a violin- you’d have to use a tool to move those wooden pegs on the side of the object. Meditation is the process of bringing you in tune with yourself.  In order to be in tune- you have to be open; receptive to be tuned.”

Dr. Woody Carter, has been the Executive Director of the Bay Area Black United Fund since 1997. In a brief interview at a coffee shop near Oakland’s Lake Merritt, Dr. Carter told me about the history of his organization, his educational background, and his experience with love.  

Baba Carter, 68 and still paying student loans, said he will finally pay off his remaining debt of 5, 000 dollar this upcoming Fall.

Dr. Carter holds four college degrees, including one from the Howard University. Fitting, for that’s where his mother and father met, it’s the same place he was born, and happens to be the college I attended.  

Dr. Carter told me about his most recent degree: doctorate in theological narratives; using stories to study the intergenerational connection within African Americans. He cited studying the Bible, Amiri Baraka’s work, and W.E.B. DuBois’ writings; among other stories. He drove the same point home that W.E.B. DuBois touched on in the book, “The Souls of Black Folks”, stating that we are both African and American, and those polar opposite entities have created an unresolved spiritual dilemma within us as a people.

Mr. Carter spoke about politics, religion, working in Oakland, growing up in New York, and freedom rides through the South. He told me about his degrees and his enlightenment through meditation; but nothing compared to his love story… 

At his 5th wife’s memorial service in November of 2011, he told the story of how he and her, a beautiful lady by the name of Jennifer, fell in love…

He told me that same story during our interview at the cafe…

After four prior marriages, he wasn’t interested in finding another wife, but the lady he had been spending time with had begun to feel a certain way…

“I want to get married” said Jennifer. 

Woody responded with a line that he’d been telling himself over and over in preparation to defend himself from falling in love again,

“I’ve been married 4 times…uh … doesn’t that tell you something?”

He said his line, and she didn’t even acknowledge it, she just kept on about wanting to get married. She waited for thirty minutes until she brought it up again…

“And about your prior marriages: those other women just knocked the kinks out… I’m going to get the best years out of you.”

They were married 11 years. Dr. Carter told me,

“I knew she was the one because at that point, I didn’t have an answer, I just there sat quietly.hahaha…”

(Meditating. Open to being tuned… I thought to myself. ) 

Dr. Carter autographed a copy of his book, “Theology for a Violent Age”, we shook hands, and parted ways…

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May 16, 2012
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I think @crissles is one of the funniest people on Twitter…and I don’t even know her.

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May 16, 2012
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 Come and take a walk on the wild side.

 Come and take a walk on the wild side.

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May 15, 2012
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Never waste your time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.

— dream hampton (via dreamhampton1)


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May 14, 2012
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Back in bikram today!!!

If you follow me on twitter you know my love and adulation for bikram yoga. It is the best physical, emotional, and spiritual workout I’ve ever gotten. I did it for about 5 months last year, then had to stop for a summer internship and because it is really expensive.

I’m so excited to start my summer off right by getting back in bikram yoga. If you haven’t tried it, you should. I had never done yoga before (preferring pilates and more traditional workouts), but just attending my first class with my wife (watch @dacecandy’s videos on Youtube here! :)) changed my life.

I promise if you seek to be more in tune with your body and you want to use your spirituality to heal yourself, bikram may just do it for you! 

Peace and love always,

B


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May 14, 2012
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When we are doing the will of our true Self, we are inevitably doing the will of the universe.

— Alan Moore (via nok-ind)

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